<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">江有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">100</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">多米宽,而且流速也快。几个人爱在江边游泳,其中两个人因为话不投机打起赌来,说谁不能游到对岸,谁就不是男人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font size="4">两个人对恃着要求一起下水,但其中一个看着水流湍急的江面改变了主意,他平静的说:“我服输。”</font></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">另一个人听罢,哈哈大笑,他转身投入湍急的江水中,回头对旁人说:“我要让你这家伙看看咱的本领”。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">他的朋友们让他回来,说现在江水流速快,游到对岸有危险,但他根本不听朋友们的话,转眼之间就游出五六十米远。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">朋友们焦急的站在岸边看着他越来越小的身影,突然一个浪头打过来,他在江中消失了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">朋友大声叫:“不好。”他们借来救生衣跳入江中救援,但哪里还见得到他的身影。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">第二天,他的尸体在下游被人发现了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">他在县里是有名的游泳健将,他对这条江的水流也比较清楚。但是许多人都知道此时不能下水游泳,而他却置之不理。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这是明知不可为而为之,他死得很冤枉。如果当时能认输,就不会送掉自己的生命。在对手认输的情况下,其实他已经没有必要下水了,因为现在没有外在力量强迫他非前行不可,但他受制于自己珍惜的所谓男人的自尊,他不是死于江中,而是败在自己无所谓惧的勇气里。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">记得在一本杂志上看到一则登山故事:美国有一位登山运动员不远万里来到珠穆朗玛峰。他准备了几年,最大的愿望就是能够冲顶,而且向外界公布了他的愿望。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">但是他在登到海拔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">7000</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">米时,山上的气候恶化,虽然此时他体力仍十分充沛,完全有能力冲顶。但是他毅然选择了退却,撤回了营地。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">许多人对他的行为表示不解,但他却说:“海拔</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">7000</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">米对他来说,也是一个奇迹。”尽管冲顶对他来说只是一步之遥,但是在恶化的天气里,他必须为此冒生命危险。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一个狂热的登山运动员能在唾手可得的胜利面前认输,这需要勇气。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不服输是人类致命的弱点。在我们的生活中,一个人一旦被光环笼罩,就违背了自己真实的初衷,不再为自己的心意所使而为名誉地位所累。我们为了面子和荣耀感,无法收手,结果败得一塌糊涂。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">服输要比不服输更需要勇气,能服输时则服输,其实是一种生活的大智慧。</span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> 去年8月的一天,一个<span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">朋友给我讲了这样一件事:前几天,他和几个朋友到十三陵水库游泳。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">6.7</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">个人一起游到对岸,休息一会要往回游时,其中一人说什么也不敢游了,他说恐怕游不回去。众人说让他带上救生圈,大家保护他游回去,可无论大家怎么劝说他还是不肯游。后来还是请了正在水库训练的部队,用快艇把他载回去的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我对朋友说,其实你们不该劝他的,幸亏他没有同意,水库那么深、那么大(单程大约</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">900</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">米左右),万一有事就你们那点水平谁也救不了谁,到时候怎么交代?他也同意我的说法,说后来一想,真不该劝他游回来,大不了叫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt">110</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">,也不该冒险。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">现实中不是每个人都能做到适时服输的。试想,那人如果不是适时收手,或逞强或碍于面子下水,结果会怎样?他是不是可以称得上是个智者呢?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-line-height-rule: exactly"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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